Have you ever seen the episode of friends where Rachel makes desert for Thanksgiving, and she mixes a trifle recipe with a Shepard's pie recipe? Well ever since the first time my husband watched that episode he has wanted a trifle just like that one. So Happy Birthday My Husband.
So for those if you who missed the ingredients it went a little like this. (I made some changes, so I'll write down what I did)
A layer of lady fingers (ok its pound cake), raspberry jam, vanilla pudding (I don't do custard from scratch), raspberries, more pound cake, beef sauteed with peas and carrots, more pound cake, raspberry jam (two layers of jam for my husband), more pudding, bananas and whipped cream (whipped fresh).